Stressors Invade Between People & Information You’ve Provided.

Help customers be response-able as Stephen Covey advised, so they avoid reactivity (freeze/flight/fight). Covey emphasized importance of a space/gap of freedom for choosing responses.

Distracted & fatigued people are forgetful (temporarily uninformed), feel stuck & forced into action. They default to reactions. Stress pushes awareness & knowledge aside. Whether people received your offers &/or invested in your advantages, proximate stressors invade spaces/gaps between stimulus & response/reaction.

Expect Perfection & Imperfection.

Help with response-ability via preparations for potential opportunities & remedies, so customers have more time & energy for what’s unexpected. Response-able people learn to skillfully use products to increase functionality. Functional hope decreases stress. Help customers avoid being overwhelmed/shattered by ongoing occurrences & new problems.

Without preparations, people freeze/check-out & stop productive thoughts & actions. Any emerging thoughts/hopes would pertain to finding certainty. When circumstantial certainty seems impossible, people may flee to seek certainty elsewhere.

People fight when finding (possibly misperceiving) causes to remove/resist. People claim totally certainty despite complexities. Nobody has 100% perception.

Confidence isn't always synonymous with certainty. Certain people might expect smooth, straight roads, but panic when discovering their routes are wrong. Confident people figure tested options will work when adjusted for changes.

As circumstantial factors multiply, focus becomes harder. Customer integrators advertise reality checks in imperfect settings plus invitations to full situational consultations/group sessions. Examples: ‘(Problem-A) is increasing, which remedies have you tried? Which succeeded? Without practical cures, (Problem-B) varies with weather. How are you preparing for inevitable mold & high-humidity? Let’s adjust plans with (products/processes).’

Examine Conditions. Compare Expectations with Resources. Set Responses & Goals.

Encourage niche members’ check-ins about controlling causes & limiting effects. Continuous improvements can reserve resources, but people forfeit preparatory resources by stopping projects to escape imperfections. Differentiate by offering lifestyle upgrades & preservation instead of imitating product-pushing competitors.

While barriers/walls block disadvantages, people might retain preliminary advantages but limit expansion. While delaying projects, people might retain previously advantageous products which deteriorate & limit technique effectiveness/efficiency. So, people shouldn’t mentally wall-off updated products/techniques. For realistic freedom, people must base expenses & efforts in/on value.

Seek Manufacturers’ Guidance on Product Specifications to Combine with Local Authorities’/Influencers’ Insightful Knowledge.

Without time & energy for cognitive labor, people might choose false economies of tolerating results from cheap products while using superior techniques. People might feel frustration/pain when hitting limits yet trying harder can be worse. With step-by-step plans, resources are allocated so high/low limits are arranged/expected.

Analogy: When inadequate products don't fulfill expectations, people might misinterpret ideal experience "recipes" & maximize/minimize heat & ingredients. Help customers discern options for maximizing experiential quality & quantity. Low-budget plans might support many mediocre experiences.

Differentiate your store with guidance for selecting high-quality events. Though indebted consumers feel stuck, freedom may be out-of-reach without credit for investing in top-quality. When cheap products’ meager “benefits” decline, unexpected/undetected reemerging problems may worsen.

Guide customers’ cognitive labor, so they can freely relax between projects.

Unmaintained Freedom Won’t Last.

Constant freedom maintenance is like securely gripping essentials, until hands become tired. People drop or juggle items (remedies/opportunities) after attempting excessive grasping. People are free to try constantly holding but aren’t stress-free while continuously dropping/juggling. Without relief, more juggling becomes necessary.

What can you & fellow retailers (teammates) do about what/when/how &/or why members juggle tasks/stresses?

Without guidance, effective/efficient coping/defense mechanisms eventually can become dysfunctional as problems change. Example: Hoarders might feel some relief while accumulating stuff, but don’t have space/money for new discoveries. Hoarders might be stressed when forced to reduce new &/or old acquisitions.

People might widen personal freedom by doing/owning many things. Some might focus on maximizing fewer experiences for deeper freedom.

Specialist retailers can make remedies/opportunities special compared to diverse experiences. Analogy: Cooks have limited spices/condiments. By skimping to spread those among many meals, cooks would diminish experiences compared to reserving ingredients for few meals. Would they prefer: continuous mediocre meals or bland meals with interspersed feasts?

Members might eliminate or hit fewer barriers if better moves/options were available.

Would walls keep better environments out-of-reach? In effect, people might need to climb over/go through gates to occupy other environments or bring resources in. Would those resources/loads be compatible (fit through gates/between walls or be practical to haul over barriers)?

People should consider which internal/external threats could overwhelm walls then damage/diminish assets. What indicates which purchases will repair/maintain walls?

When customers want barriers, consultations define desired/undesired results, so benefits are planned accordingly.

Steps can go toward benefits &/or away from- unrepaired/stable damage; currently increasing harm; &/or emerging/potential losses. People could mistakenly rely on walls that block some problems without establishing sufficient security against others. Are specialized or generalized resources necessary/adequate for specialized walls?

If distant walls are/become disadvantageous, should members stay away or closely seek gates? Since people inevitably encounter/hit walls/obstacles, which preparations are practical & how many? Changes seem inevitable, so how long should members wait to closely check whether conditions are finalized?

Though walls won’t prevent all problems, people might limit vulnerabilities. Since customers must limit tasks according to urgence/importance, what do you recommend for remedying/preventing troubles? How do you & retail teammates help customers maintain progress while preventing/decreasing losses? If you don’t decrease vulnerabilities, why would people feel confident to start new projects?

Offer Example: ‘With multiple problems, how do you know which vulnerabilities are worse? (Store) referrals & consultations reveal which local retailers offer products & guidance about potential priorities. Let’s evaluate what should & shouldn’t happen, set your budget & plan your project.’

Issue Denial Seems Easier Than Problem Prevention/Remedies.

As walls become taller, previously noticed/currently unseen opportunities/threats become harder to define. Opportunities could change & become permanently lost or undesirable. Invasive threats disrupt opportunity expansions &/or make conditions unmanageable. How much does wall building/maintenance consume resources for/from other efforts?

Analogy: When niche experiences indicate multiple members’ conditions include the same/similar wall, cooperative testing can compare products & approaches (combinations) to quickly find safe, effective & efficient ladders & techniques.

Team project management makes specialized contributions to add value for each member. Individuals’ efforts might decrease step-by-step quality because awkward/nonspecialized concentration would consume more time & energy.

Troublesome wall quantities depend partly on people’s destinations & resource locations. Which walls are worse? What makes walls easier to surmount? Thick, tall walls seem formidable. How much does mastery require: practice, coaching, knowledge, skills & tools? Are resources available seasonally?

People might not start if they’d probably finish late. If late finishes become certain, what can be saved/salvaged to avoid wastage? How much lead-time should members have for starting/finishing preparations that fit goals & conditions?

Is This All There Is? Why So Many Leaders Hit a Wall in Their 50s (and What to Do About It) By Marcel Schwantes, https://www.inc.com/marcel-schwantes/high-achieving-leaders-executives-ceos-midlife/91264936

Schwantes wrote, “You built the dream. Now what? Success wasn’t supposed to feel this empty.” While walls block disadvantages, do resources get through? Without replenishment, diminished advantages remain with less power. Help members determine why opportunities/remedies feel empty. After buying & using cheap products, what’s still missing?

In effect, people invest in risk-reduction & lack necessities for exploring/preserving/empowering advantages. Previous advantages become like Schwantes wrote when “decisions look right … but don’t feel right”.

Moral rightness can be constant. Purposeful rightness can expire. If purposes remain, monitor necessities & obstacles to evaluate whether plans, methods & resources are still compatible (with minimal friction/conflict). Interaction friction can increase damage & prevent benefits.

Before, during & after plan implementation, define circumstantial friction & determine causes, effects & symptoms. Definitions/diagnoses enable/empower repairs, recoveries & preventions compatible with advancements.

What creates/brings abilities? What empowers abilities? Answers depend on: goals/timelines; obstacles/restrictions; updated/outdated products/techniques.

Are obstacles/restrictions built-in by others or do people self-inflict these? Are self-inflicted walls familiar enough for self-help? How clued-in/clueless are sufferers? Do they realize/admit suffering? Do they know or reject reasons?

Unfortunately, you can help only in customers’ sphere-of-control (between walls). While helping customers tame issues, authoritative actions demonstrate you use insightful facts.

Customers’ relief can nudge trust upward as they realize your diagnoses reveal/remove obstacles blocking opportunities. Mental blocks are common. People perceive potential problems, theorize definitions, wonder if their knowledge/skills/tools are enough.

Shaky attempts weigh on tenuous confidence. People need confidence in successful project completion, converting benefit combinations into maintainable advantages, establishing new goals & plans for further progress. Customer integrators review/renew lives by conquering local challenges/disruptions to remove/reduce walls.

When people encounter/expect walls, advantage offers incentivize members by guiding preparations plus step-by-step progress. Challenges motivate some, but many have challenge overloads. Aspirational advantages might seem out-of-reach without short-/mid-/long-term incentives to encourage consumers.

Low-morale resides when multiplying discouragements are hard to pursue/conquer. Resources are split during that pursuit, so happiness is delayed. If people energetically avoid/ignore looming walls, darkness remains while seemingly blocking inspirational light & shading enlightenment.

Enlightened implementations require concentration & confidently choosing. Without confidence, distracted people burn energy while wondering about better options. While losing resources & progress, low-morale drains energy faster, so any results are celebrated, even if not long-term benefits.

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